Well, I'm taking the leap into blogging. I have always felt I was born in the wrong era!
When my friends were deciding they wanted to be doctors, lawyers or Indian chiefs, I felt lost. I wanted to be a Mom and a wife. I wanted to have a beautiful home ... not fancy or expensive, just warm and inviting and a wonderful home.
I wanted to make dinner and have my husband come in the door after a long day with a kiss and a meal waiting on him!
I wanted lovely children who would come home from school to a fresh cookie, some milk and some help with their homework.
It isn't something that's "normal" in this day and age. I felt weird. I wanted to be Donna Reed. What was wrong with me???
Yet, I got the husband and the kids and I did stay home. My husband will proudly tell anyone that will listen how his wife saves more money than most wives make.
How? I cut coupons. I make dinners instead of ordering in or eating out after a long day at work.
I don't pay for child care. I provide it myself.
I don't pay for office appropriate clothing or the gas to get me there and back.
I don't pay for house cleaning. I do it myself.
Am I weird? Maybe. I am not wearing pearls and a house dress while I clean and cook. I am not denying myself a computer (obviously) or modern technology, although I do see it as something to be limited.
Maybe this is all weird, or maybe I'm just part of a minority but I am doing what I love and it works for me.
What I am NOT is lazy. I work very hard at my job. I am a wife, mother, cook, cleaning lady, child care provider, accountant, nurse, vet (cats and a dog!), and so much more. I do not receive a weekly check but I do save a ton of money and I am very well paid in living my dream and receiving love and the joy of seeing my family thrive from our choices.
I don't know if my job is a dying one but I plan to live it as long as possible and hope to find others out there who enjoy the same "job". Anybody out there???
Yes there is me...
ReplyDeleteI find so much of what you say is how I felt too, my mother was a stay at home mum, yet my generation were made to feel that we should be working! I have been lucky enough to combine employment that takes place mostly in the home so I was able to be there when the children got home from school. I think there is too much pressure these days, to be out there working, when bringing up children is the best thing you can do.
Thanks! I love feeling the support. Some days I feel like an alien! ;-)
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